Well no one answered me on the bulbs :S I went ahead and purchased a 6700k bulb and a Colormax bulb. They are 24w each. So I replaced the Atenic blue bulbs with these but alternated each with the a 10k bulb. So it goes 10k, Colormax, 10k, 6700k. Hopefully this will help out my plants. My rainbow fish already looks better. I will post a picture with the new bulbs tomorrow.

I am still unsure about how online fish ordering works. Do they prepare orders with the correct male/female ratios? I haven't seen a place to specify on some popular sites. Thanks for any feedback.