View Full Version : Hate me if you want to
Ryanlives
08-15-2009, 02:03 AM
Ok, as you know, my last thread made things..heated. I havent been on the forum in a few days, because i was thinking about what everyone had said.
First off, Robflanker, I did what you said , i read through all my posts and pms you have replied of mine. You and all the other fellow aquarists that told me i was wrong for what i had said, you were right. Robflanker, I sincerely apologize for attacking you ,and making those nasty comments, you have helped me from the beginning, and as you put "held my hand". Its up to you whether or not you would accept my apology , but i understand if you dont, i probably wouldnt myself. I can be intolerant at times, after the many times i read over my previous thread , i had come to realize how wrong i really was. I was wrong to question you, attack you and ignore your advice, even though i was asking for it, understandably frustrating. Any way, hoping everyone on the forum doesnt hate me because I DID make a mistake, and for that I am sorry.
P.S. Cichlids are gone, got a dwarf gourami in the 25 gal.
My apologies,
-Ryan
Algenco
08-15-2009, 02:07 AM
Very nice of you :22:
Ryanlives
08-15-2009, 02:11 AM
I just want to make sure everyone knows that am sorry.
cubby
08-15-2009, 02:12 AM
knowing when to admit you are wrong, or were wrong, and apologizing is a huge "respect" aspect for me.
takes a good person to apologize.
bushwhacker
08-15-2009, 02:15 AM
very nice and i doubt anyone here hates you.. the people on this forum are very passionate about fish and can get a bit belligerant at times specially me so thank you
Colossal post. Tough to do and well respected, nicely said. We are happy to have you as part of the family.
Lady Hobbs
08-15-2009, 02:25 AM
Nice thread altho not sure why it wasn't a private PM to Rob but nice job anyway.
Ryanlives
08-15-2009, 02:29 AM
i wanted to make it public, i thought everyone would understand me better.
Lady Hobbs
08-15-2009, 02:30 AM
Fine here, Ryan. I just wondered.
Northernguy
08-15-2009, 02:30 AM
That was well said Ryan but you and Rob should have a private chat!
If he is willing.
Amazon
08-15-2009, 02:47 AM
Thats very nice of you, I agree you and Rob should have a private talk.
smaug
08-15-2009, 02:53 AM
Ok, as you know, my last thread made things..heated. I havent been on the forum in a few days, because i was thinking about what everyone had said.
First off, Robflanker, I did what you said , i read through all my posts and pms you have replied of mine. You and all the other fellow aquarists that told me i was wrong for what i had said, you were right. Robflanker, I sincerely apologize for attacking you ,and making those nasty comments, you have helped me from the beginning, and as you put "held my hand". Its up to you whether or not you would accept my apology , but i understand if you dont, i probably wouldnt myself. I can be intolerant at times, after the many times i read over my previous thread , i had come to realize how wrong i really was. I was wrong to question you, attack you and ignore your advice, even though i was asking for it, understandably frustrating. Any way, hoping everyone on the forum doesnt hate me because I DID make a mistake, and for that I am sorry.
P.S. Cichlids are gone, got a dwarf gourami in the 25 gal.
My apologies,
-Ryan
Aw heck kid.Get back in here,take it from an ole hand at it,it aint no biggythumbs2:
This seems like a PM but I understand where you are coming from, I probably still would have assumed you were mad at Rob if you hadn't posted this.
(Nice to see Rob finally get through to somebody!:hmm3grin2orange: )
Sharon
08-15-2009, 12:39 PM
thumbs2: Well said...and welcome back!
bushwhacker
08-15-2009, 04:59 PM
sharon, i know what budgies are but what the heck is a linnie?
Sharon
08-15-2009, 05:09 PM
A Linnie is a Lineolated Parrot or Parakeet...Lovely bird.... Parrot personality in a smaller quieter body!:hmm3grin2orange:
Wild Turkey
08-15-2009, 05:50 PM
Very nice of you :22:
I agree, quite the gesture. :19:
Wild Turkey
08-15-2009, 05:51 PM
Double, mods?
jaysee
08-15-2009, 06:17 PM
Where's the double post police?
Wild Turkey
08-15-2009, 06:19 PM
Where's the double post police?
Lol I know right?! Cant go on vacation around here:hmm3grin2orange:
jaysee
08-15-2009, 08:14 PM
Like I'm one to talk. I'm pretty sure I triple posted the other day:11:
Cristoff
08-15-2009, 08:22 PM
I doubt seriously that anyone here hates you. Debates sometimes get heated, and it takes a solid person to admit he was in the wrong.
Like I said before, everyone here takes this "hobby" very seriously and they always give information based on their personal experiences.
Sounds like it's over to me, so get back to asking the questions - we'll answer them up for you!thumbs2:
robflanker
08-15-2009, 11:23 PM
Apology accepted.
Feel free to contact me with any questions you have
Little Embers
08-16-2009, 12:45 AM
Apology accepted.
Feel free to contact me with any questions you have
I think that would be a wonderful note to close this thread on! thumbs2:
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