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doug z
05-15-2009, 05:02 AM
Oh man..

Our favourite fish died..

She wasn't even that old..

She was the first fish that I got back in Sept of last year, and she was like 3/4 of an inch when we got her..

Kids are going to be devastated..

Haven't had the heart to tell them yet..

I saw her right away when I got home, pale and unmoving..

I thought maybe she was sick, as for the last 2 days she hadn't even looked at the cucumber I put in the tank, but she was eating algae off the ornaments..

But no..

Man..... What do you say? I feel like crap and have NO idea what I did wrong by her.. :(


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emilyekk
05-15-2009, 05:16 AM
Oh man..

Our favourite fish died..

She wasn't even that old..

She was the first fish that I got back in Sept of last year, and she was like 3/4 of an inch when we got her..

Kids are going to be devastated..

Haven't had the heart to tell them yet..

I saw her right away when I got home, pale and unmoving..

I thought maybe she was sick, as for the last 2 days she hadn't even looked at the cucumber I put in the tank, but she was eating algae off the ornaments..

But no..

Man..... What do you say? I feel like crap and have NO idea what I did wrong by her.. :(


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a[Only Registered Users Can See Links.] I'm sorry for your loss.

She was a pretty girl. :(

Little Embers
05-15-2009, 09:17 AM
Very sorry to hear that Doug! You may not have done anything wrong, so don't go blaming yourself.

I always believe it is best to tell kids the truth regarding this sort of thing...if they are old enough to understand that is!

doug z
05-15-2009, 01:09 PM
They're 5 and 8, so yeah, they can handle it..

I'll try today..

Gayle
05-15-2009, 01:17 PM
Awe I am sorry Doug! She was a pretty lil girl! Sometimes it just happens.

doug z
05-15-2009, 01:20 PM
I'll be getting 2 more plecos just like her in a couple weeks, to soften the blow..

Hopefully there's nothing wrong in the tank presently which contributed to her death..

Parameters are all normal.. (pH, etc)..

rich311k
05-15-2009, 01:41 PM
I am sorry for the loss. Sometiimes these things just happen.

Wild Turkey
05-15-2009, 01:43 PM
Sorry for your loss doug, good luck with the kids im sure they'll be alright

Deleted User
05-15-2009, 01:49 PM
Sorry for your loss Doug. :scry:

fishlover49
05-15-2009, 01:50 PM
Sorry about that, Doug. :scry:

Sharon
05-15-2009, 02:29 PM
Sorry Doug! Good luck with the kids....it's actually a good life experience to deal with the death of pets. Children are suprisingly resilient!

troy
05-15-2009, 02:33 PM
It could have been something internal.

pazbich3
05-15-2009, 03:41 PM
Sorry about your loss...it's always hard when you lose a favorite. I definitely know the feeling. It's amazing how we grow attached to fish just like any other pet....

fins_n_fur
05-15-2009, 03:42 PM
Sorry to hear of your loss, Doug! :11:

Northernguy
05-15-2009, 04:18 PM
Thats terrible news Doug!
I do think the kids can handle it.Probably better than most adults.
Its also a good thing for them to experience.Life isn't always fun!

doug z
05-16-2009, 03:18 AM
STILL haven't told them.. :(

Tomorrow.. For sure..

Red
05-16-2009, 03:24 AM
sorry for your loss, know hot it feels!

bushwhacker
05-16-2009, 04:25 AM
if you mantain your tank as i know you do you cant blame yourself doug.. we all lose fish man its part of the hobby

Goodbye
05-16-2009, 07:11 AM
Sorry for your loss, Doug. :scry:

doug z
05-17-2009, 10:53 PM
Thanks guys..

Kids took it ok, I guess..

I told them we'll get 2 of the same type of fish in a couple weeks..