Bad news guys

[Lindsay_D]

Okay...It seems like everytime I go on here i got bad news. I'm sorry guys. But i got another thing of bad news. Yesterday my boyfriend and i crashed in his car at the school. We were coming around the corner and his car went strait. we both weren't wearing seat belts (i was in the process of putting it on) and we bounced off the gaurd rail. The air bags didn't go off. But the drivers side of the car was completely tore off. He was able to drive it home though...We waited at his house for hours before i could get a ride home. My right arm was blue for the whole night and I'm grounded till I'm 30...

Were both okay but i thought i'd share the news. Sorry guys for being such a bummer and always bringing the bad news.

[TehTANK]

OMG I am so sorry that happend. Accidents are so scary. The good thing is that you both are okay. Don't worry about the whole grounding thing. That will pass. The good news is you are alright. I hope your arm feels better.

[Lindsay_D]

My arm feels fine now. I'm moving it and stuff without any pain or problems. I wasn't really scared about the accident when it happend, but when I woke up this morning and I just couldn't help but crying over it. Its ridiculous. I hate this. I'm not afraid to die but I guess I am scared that I won't be able to say goodbye to everyone. That's like my worst fear.

[TehTANK]

I know what you mean. No matter what there is something that is always scary about accidents and what not. I am glad to hear that your arm is better. Just be thankful everyone is okay. I know I am thankful you guys are alright.

[jeffs99dime]

sorry to hear about the accident. glad you're doing better!thumbs2:

[Lindsay_D]

Thanks Jeff...hat being grounded though. Crap gotta run..talk to you guys later on in the day...

[Severus]

Sorry to hear about the accident. It seems like you have been having a tough time lately with everything that has been going on. Glad to hear you alrite and like Teh said the whole grounding thing will blow over in a few days.

[Lindsay_D]

hopefully my parent's will get over it. I'm almost 18 and they told me that i need to make my own choices.

I'm sorry for always having these problems and bringing them up. I just tell you guys because you are like my own family.

Sorry guys

[TehTANK]

hopefully my parent's will get over it. I'm almost 18 and they told me that i need to make my own choices.

I'm sorry for always having these problems and bringing them up. I just tell you guys because you are like my own family.

Sorry guys


We aren't just here to help with fish. Were are here to help eachother in life if you ask me and support one another. That is what I like about this forum. I am sure others would agree. So you just keep puting this stuff up and we will continue to do our best to help out.

[Incredulous_Ed]

I definetly agree tehTANK.
Glad you're feeling better Lindsay.

[Lindsay_D]

thanks tehTANK.

[kimmers318]

Sorry to hear that Lindsay but glad to see you pop in!
I have my 13 yr old niece currently staying with me who has shown us that she is a liar, sneaky and a tramp....and advice from your perspective on how best to know when to "lay the smack down" and when to start giving her the opportunity to earn some trust back. I can't allow myself to believe that she will continue to lie, sneak and slut around forever, but am quickly hitting the end of my patience. She is currently grounded for a week for disrespecting our household with her behavior when her boyfriend was allowed to visit this evening.

[Drumachine09]

The important thing is you are alright.

[blue fin]

Glad you're ok... The grounding think will go away quick, have patience and show you're parents that you understand what could have happened and that you don't want it to happen again. They just want the best for you and worry that if they aren't strict enough you'll make a bad decision and get hurt as a result. Once they realize you know how serious this was they should relax a bit. Try to think of their perspective and don't be too hard on them.

[Lady Hobbs]

Glad you are OK Lindsay. Bad way to start the New Year but in a way, also a good way to start it as you weren't hurt or worse.

[Lindsay_D]

Sorry to hear that Lindsay but glad to see you pop in!
I have my 13 yr old niece currently staying with me who has shown us that she is a liar, sneaky and a tramp....and advice from your perspective on how best to know when to "lay the smack down" and when to start giving her the opportunity to earn some trust back. I can't allow myself to believe that she will continue to lie, sneak and slut around forever, but am quickly hitting the end of my patience. She is currently grounded for a week for disrespecting our household with her behavior when her boyfriend was allowed to visit this evening.

Kimmers,

I honestly don’t know what to say about your niece. To stop her “trampness” I think you should scare her with medical information. Take her to a place where people have STDs and that have AIDS. Show her the numbers…the facts. The harder the punishment the more she will be trouble causing. Personally I’m lost about this situation.

[jeffs99dime]

Kimmers,

I honestly don’t know what to say about your niece. To stop her “trampness” I think you should scare her with medical information. Take her to a place where people have STDs and that have AIDS. Show her the numbers…the facts. The harder the punishment the more she will be trouble causing. Personally I’m lost about this situation.

scare tactics could possibly work

[Lindsay_D]

I know that scaring is the best way to do this type of thing. Personal experiences make the best to. Have her get busted by a fake cop like my parents did to me. I will never Speed again!

[Juannie]

Wow I hope you're ok, it's always scary being in an accident and having no control. At least you guys are ok, fingers crossed the grounding will be over in no time.

[Lindsay_D]

the groundings over and so is the relationship. This is not my year honestly....*humph*

[Severus]

THats alright. I had a hell of a time in November and December. We all have our bad days... or bad months... or years. lol

[Lindsay_D]

guess so...humm...

[jman]

sorry bout the accident...GOSh gotta get on here more i'm missing lots of stuff i am so sorry bout the car accident hope your great now!!!!!!

[Lindsay_D]

GOOD NEWS! i don't have lyme disease. i have athritis or however you spell it

[Abbeys_Mom]

Well..that's not really good new, it's kinda "less bad news". I can sympathize, I have arthritis in one knee, it's a pain in the....well....knee. lol.

[Lindsay_D]

yeah i know what you mean. that's exactly what i have but i'm okay with that. It's better than having lyme disease though. I have to take asprin or whatever

[Nautilus29]

Kimmers did you mean shes grounded for a week because of what she did when her bf came over or she was grounded and you still let her bf come over.

[Lindsay_D]

If you grounded her and let her have her boyfriend over you made a big mistake. When my parents ground me it's like.....well HELL! i get nothing. I don't have anyone to talk to except my brother's. They are 6 and 3...those conversations aren't very important...

But i think it was that the girl got grounded because of the actions when the boyfriend came over. HEy at least you didn't let it slide.

[Lindsay_D]

what is this..i took a personality test and it pretty much said i'm an @ss...wtf!