William
04-07-2008, 12:11 PM
There has been a lot of controversy around the forum these last few days which have been fueled by a lot of rumors. In this post I want to straighten them all out and then we can move on as friends.
The truth is that members as well as staff has made mistakes this last days, myself not excluded an din the heat of the moment things have been said that might not should have been said, other things have been misunderstood as saying something they weren't meant to say. If we peel all this away the facts are the following.
Mitcore made a mistake by creating an "ac" service without checking with me first. She soon after realized what she had done and sent me a pm saying that she was sorry and asking for my forgiveness, Something she did receive. She did go about this the wrong way and admits to that but it should also be said that she did to this because of her love of AC and because she wanted to contribute. She thought this was a good thing and was not aware of the negative aspects of keeping a voice server which understandable made her felt hurt by the reaction of the staff towards her new server. I later informed her about the downsides and she than had a better understanding of why the staff was upset by her starting the server without going through me. She once again apologized. We talked about it and found a solution that would minimize the negative effects but still give the members who wanted to chance to a chat with each other.
Mitcore later wanted to apologize to the rest of the forum as well and started a new thread which unfortunately was interpreted the wrong way and led to more controversy between different members as well as against mitcore herself. I know that Mitcore only had the best intentions in doing this and just wanted to say that she is sorry and ask everyone to forgive her for what happened. Unfortunately her very nice intentions was lost in the discussion that followed.
Now when I said what really happened I am going to address some of the rumors.
Mitcore has never been banned nor have banning her ever been on the table.
Mitcore is not being asked to leave or chased away. We all want her to stay and I have also personally done so. If she choose to leave us for a time or permanent it is a shame but her choice.
The moderators or hobbs does not have it in for Mitcore. But we re all people, and as people we have emotions that can get carried away. All parties might have said things they shouldn't have, either because of misunderstanding ( which I guess is how the banned myth got started) or heated feelings. This is however behind us and it is time to forget, forgive and move on. Anything else you might have heard about this is rumor and nothing to pay attention to. To avoid similar situation I ask, NO BEG, all of you to contact a mod or me if you hear a rumor to verify it before believing it.
It is now time for me to talk about the most important fact, the one thing no one should ever forget, about this whole mess. That fact is that everything that has been done on all sides in this mess has been done because the people doing it love this site.
Mitcore loves this site and tried to make it better. She love this site and its member so she wanted to say she was sorry. Here's is the most important thing to remember about mitcore, she loves this site.
Lady Hobbs loves this site and anything she does her is because she loves this site and want to keep it great. Here's is the most important thing to remember about hobbs, She loves this site.
the other mods love this site and everything they have done is because they love this site. Here's is the most important thing to remember about the other mods, they love this site.
Other members who in one way or another have been involved in discussion and stated their minds have done so because they love this site and they want to become ever better, regardless of which their point of view might have been. Here's is the most important thing to remember about the other members, they love this site.
I might have done a few mistakes in handling this, but once again that is only because I love this sight and want it to be as good as it can be and that all members should feel at home here. This entire mess is based on the fact that we all love this site and instead of focusing on what happened and any differences that might exist we should focus on that. We all love this site. That is all that really matters and what we should hold on to as we leave all this behind us.
I say lets all forgive any and all grudges we might carry and move forward.
I think everyone that agrees with this should post in this thread and let everyone know that they love mitcore, love Lady hobbs, love the staff and that they love the rest or the forum members and that everything else is behind us. All of us including mitcore, Hobbs and other staff need to hear that they are loved now.
I know that I still:
Love Mitcore!
Love Lady Hobbs
Love the rest of the staff
Love every other member on this forum.
(If anyone want to discuss anything surrounding this further please pm me. The public discussion ends here and new threads on the topic will be deleted as we need to forget and forgive. Feel the love)
The truth is that members as well as staff has made mistakes this last days, myself not excluded an din the heat of the moment things have been said that might not should have been said, other things have been misunderstood as saying something they weren't meant to say. If we peel all this away the facts are the following.
Mitcore made a mistake by creating an "ac" service without checking with me first. She soon after realized what she had done and sent me a pm saying that she was sorry and asking for my forgiveness, Something she did receive. She did go about this the wrong way and admits to that but it should also be said that she did to this because of her love of AC and because she wanted to contribute. She thought this was a good thing and was not aware of the negative aspects of keeping a voice server which understandable made her felt hurt by the reaction of the staff towards her new server. I later informed her about the downsides and she than had a better understanding of why the staff was upset by her starting the server without going through me. She once again apologized. We talked about it and found a solution that would minimize the negative effects but still give the members who wanted to chance to a chat with each other.
Mitcore later wanted to apologize to the rest of the forum as well and started a new thread which unfortunately was interpreted the wrong way and led to more controversy between different members as well as against mitcore herself. I know that Mitcore only had the best intentions in doing this and just wanted to say that she is sorry and ask everyone to forgive her for what happened. Unfortunately her very nice intentions was lost in the discussion that followed.
Now when I said what really happened I am going to address some of the rumors.
Mitcore has never been banned nor have banning her ever been on the table.
Mitcore is not being asked to leave or chased away. We all want her to stay and I have also personally done so. If she choose to leave us for a time or permanent it is a shame but her choice.
The moderators or hobbs does not have it in for Mitcore. But we re all people, and as people we have emotions that can get carried away. All parties might have said things they shouldn't have, either because of misunderstanding ( which I guess is how the banned myth got started) or heated feelings. This is however behind us and it is time to forget, forgive and move on. Anything else you might have heard about this is rumor and nothing to pay attention to. To avoid similar situation I ask, NO BEG, all of you to contact a mod or me if you hear a rumor to verify it before believing it.
It is now time for me to talk about the most important fact, the one thing no one should ever forget, about this whole mess. That fact is that everything that has been done on all sides in this mess has been done because the people doing it love this site.
Mitcore loves this site and tried to make it better. She love this site and its member so she wanted to say she was sorry. Here's is the most important thing to remember about mitcore, she loves this site.
Lady Hobbs loves this site and anything she does her is because she loves this site and want to keep it great. Here's is the most important thing to remember about hobbs, She loves this site.
the other mods love this site and everything they have done is because they love this site. Here's is the most important thing to remember about the other mods, they love this site.
Other members who in one way or another have been involved in discussion and stated their minds have done so because they love this site and they want to become ever better, regardless of which their point of view might have been. Here's is the most important thing to remember about the other members, they love this site.
I might have done a few mistakes in handling this, but once again that is only because I love this sight and want it to be as good as it can be and that all members should feel at home here. This entire mess is based on the fact that we all love this site and instead of focusing on what happened and any differences that might exist we should focus on that. We all love this site. That is all that really matters and what we should hold on to as we leave all this behind us.
I say lets all forgive any and all grudges we might carry and move forward.
I think everyone that agrees with this should post in this thread and let everyone know that they love mitcore, love Lady hobbs, love the staff and that they love the rest or the forum members and that everything else is behind us. All of us including mitcore, Hobbs and other staff need to hear that they are loved now.
I know that I still:
Love Mitcore!
Love Lady Hobbs
Love the rest of the staff
Love every other member on this forum.
(If anyone want to discuss anything surrounding this further please pm me. The public discussion ends here and new threads on the topic will be deleted as we need to forget and forgive. Feel the love)